Wearable dysfunction devices for men carry a negative rap and are under-discussed options for erectile dysfunction support. Many folks think only of “these devices” as something that those individuals living a “kink” lifestyle or those with “bondage tendencies” use. Those are true facts, but most men using these devices are those that are struggling with sexual dysfunction. These support devices ensure that the user can enjoy the act of penetrative intercourse or other intimate acts they desire.
Many sexual devices are just what is needed to help restore lost sexual function, embrace new body function and capability after medical chaos, and help to reconnect partners in times of sexual strain. More oncologists, urologists, and medical professionals are suggesting that their male patients first seek out and try these holistic therapies before routing to more invasive surgical or medicinal alternatives.
Untrue Myths of Men’s Wearable Dysfunction Devices
In our society, there are many untruths, rumors, and judgments surrounding the use of these devices, which only adds roadblocks and apprehension for other individuals desperately seeking holistic solutions. Many, if not nearly all, of these untruths are false information, spurred to promote someone or some organizations personal feelings. The next statements have been said to us and our clients’ numerous times over the years and we wanted to clarify how these statements are true, false, or both.
- “Strap-ons are only for men who cannot perform or ejaculate early.”
- True and false. Many individuals wear and use strap-ons for numerous reasons. Some for bondage or sexual kinks, some because their partners are into role play, and others just because the material feels differently and turns them on. Those males who suffer from erectile and sexual dysfunction also regularly use strap-ons to combat their issues to salvage their sexual function to be intimate with their partners (NIH).
- “Men who use strap-ons must be homosexual.”
- False. There are no set rules with wearable devices (whether a strap-on, extenders, girth enhancer, or otherwise) that only “one” type of human can utilize them. Sure, strap-on devices and wearables offer a great alternative and different sensations for bondage, kink, role play, and numerous other “styles” of intimate play. These devices are used by males, females, non-binary individuals, and those going through gender affirming surgeries. Strap-ons are often used by couples, male-male, male-female, female-female, to explore anal sexual acts and intercourse (CDC).
- “Strap-ons are only used for vaginal penetration.”
- False. While vaginal penetration does occur with strap-on devices and wearables, anal play is also something many heterosexual and homosexual people participate in on a regular basis for various reasons. Some people route to anal stimulation because they have lost feeling and function in other areas of pleasure, or their genitalia. Remember, just because something does not look or seem “right” to you does not mean it is not an entirely normal part of life for someone else (NIH).
- “Those men with small penises have to use extenders.”
- Wrong! Support extenders, girth enhancers, and some support rings are not made to hide a small penis, or to make it “work better.” Many extenders and wearable are designed to offer penile support for those men who are facing erectile dysfunction, or other issues preventing the achievement of a full, usable erection. The use of these devices for many mean that they can once again be intimate with their partners in a sexual way, which is often altered for many during medical, cancer, and other illness treatment. Support rings, or “cock rings,” are also there to provide erection support by helping to hold the blood in the penile shaft longer, for firmer, more prolonged use. The use of these devices has little to no bearing on the size of the user’s penis.
- “Lesbians are the only people who need a strap-on.”
- False, and also true. Lesbians, and woman in general regardless of their sexual orientation, utilize strap-on devices. Some use these devices with their male partners to “feel” a different “penis,” or to experience different sensations than they are use to. Strap-ons are a beneficial tool for those men who are facing dysfunction and still want to be intimate in a penetrative way with their partners- again, regardless of their sexual orientation.
The truth is that wearable dysfunction devices designed for men are extremely beneficial for sexual wellness, health, and function. These devices help to ensure that a flaccid penis with no erection potential can still feel pleasure, work toward ejaculation, and reconnect with their partners.
Citations:
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
National Institutes of Health
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